Two believers sit in the same pew every Sunday. One can walk into a room of strangers and, within ten minutes, know who is hurting and what to say to them. The other can take a tangled budget, a stalled project or a chaotic volunteer schedule and make it work by Friday. Neither of them thinks much of what they do. It comes easily, so they assume it doesn’t count. Each quietly envies the other.
Both are wrong about the same thing. What comes easily to you is often the clearest evidence of what God put in you, and the ease is exactly why you walk past it.
So the question is:
What has God already put in your hands — the gifts He gave you by His Spirit, the abilities He built into you before you ever believed, and the personality through which you use them both?
This session begins the Design section of the course, and with it the Discovery Steps. You’ll take three short assessments. But the assessments are the easy part. The real work is reading the results honestly, with God and with your witness, until you can say with evidence: this is what He gave me.
Opening Prayer (Say this aloud!)
Father, everything I have, I received. Show me the gifts You’ve given me, the dramatic ones and the ordinary ones, the ones I use every day without noticing and the ones I’ve buried because they didn’t seem important. Keep me from envying anyone else’s portion, and from despising my own. I want to see what You’ve put in my hands. In Jesus’ name, amen.
Your gifts were distributed by God’s decision, not by your preference and not as a reward. You don’t pick them, you don’t earn them, and you can’t trade them in for someone else’s. You can only discover what you’ve been given and use it.
Paul makes the point three times in one chapter, each time with a different member of the Trinity:
“Now there are different gifts, but the same Spirit. And there are different ministries, but the same Lord. And there are different results, but the same God who produces all of them in everyone… It is one and the same Spirit, distributing as he decides to each person, who produces all these things.”
“But as a matter of fact, God has placed each of the members in the body just as he decided.”
“As he decides.” “Just as he decided.” The phrase is doing the same work both times. The distribution was not a lottery and not a meritocracy. It was a decision, made by Someone who knew what His body needed and where you would fit in it. That has two consequences, and you’ll need both of them this week. If God decided your gift, you have no grounds for pride about it. And if God decided your gift, you have no grounds for despising it either.
Kingdom Essentials Session 5 laid out the three families of gifts in the New Testament: the Father’s gifts in Romans 12, the Son’s gifts to the church in Ephesians 4, and the Spirit’s gifts to the one ministering in 1 Corinthians 12. It also did the word study on charisma, a gift given by grace. Peter adds one more word that’s worth slowing down for, because it describes the whole range at once:
“Just as each one has received a gift, use it to serve one another as good stewards of the varied (ποικίλης) grace of God.”
Word Study
ποικίλος poikilos G4164
“varied” · 1 Peter 4:10
Range. Many-colored, variegated; hence of many kinds, diverse. It appears ten times in the New Testament. The Gospels use it of “various diseases” Jesus healed (Matthew 4:24), and James and Peter use it of “various trials” (James 1:2; 1 Peter 1:6).
The sense here. Of many kinds. Peter is describing God’s grace as it reaches the church through individual believers: not one grace repeated, but one grace appearing in many different forms, the way white light breaks into a spectrum.
Why it carries the argument. Peter uses the same word for the trials that come at you from every direction (1 Peter 1:6) and for the grace that meets them (4:10). The church’s needs come in many kinds, so God’s grace does too, and it comes through people. Your gift is one color of that grace. The body needs your color precisely because it isn’t anyone else’s. That’s why comparing gifts misses the point: nobody asks whether blue is better than red.
Source. Thayer’s Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament; Strong’s Concordance via Bible Hub.
Think back to the connect-the-dots picture from Session 1. Connecting the dots draws the lines of your life, but a finished picture also has color. Your gifts are some of the colors God works into your masterpiece: His one grace, broken into the particular shades He chose for you. Nobody else’s picture uses exactly your palette.
Notice, too, the word stewards. A steward manages what belongs to someone else. Your gifts are not your property. They were entrusted to you for the benefit of others: “use it to serve one another.” That means discovering your gifts is not a self-improvement project. It’s finding out what you’ve been asked to manage.
Illustration
In the port town of Joppa there was a disciple named Tabitha, also called Dorcas, who “was continually doing good deeds and acts of charity” (Acts 9:36). When she died, the believers sent for Peter. He found the upper room full of widows, “crying and showing him the tunics and other clothing Dorcas used to make while she was with them” (Acts 9:39).
That is the whole of her résumé in Scripture: a needle, some cloth and a steady habit of noticing who was cold. No sermon, no office, no miracle. Yet when God raised her from the dead, “this became known throughout all Joppa, and many believed in the Lord” (Acts 9:42). The gift nobody would have listed on a spiritual gifts inventory was the one that had already shaped a whole community, and God used it to open a city.
Pause & Reflect
What do you do so naturally that you’ve never thought of it as a gift? Who would hold it up, the way the widows held up those tunics, if you were gone?
A spiritual gifts assessment gives you a list. What it can’t give you is a verdict. Learning to read the list well is most of the work of Step 1.
The assessment this course uses, the free test at giftstest.com, measures twenty-two gifts. Some come straight from Romans 12 (giving, leadership, mercy, teaching, exhortation). Some come from 1 Corinthians 12 (wisdom, knowledge, faith, healing, miracles, prophecy, discernment, tongues). Some come from Ephesians 4 (apostleship, evangelism, pastor/shepherd). And a few come from elsewhere in Scripture: hospitality (1 Peter 4:9), craftsmanship (the Spirit-given skill of Bezalel, Exodus 31:3) and intercession.
That mix is worth understanding before you take the test, for two reasons. First, no single list in the New Testament is complete. Paul names gifts in several places, and no two of his lists are the same, which suggests he was giving examples, not a catalog. Your gift may not have a tidy name. Second, the three families of gifts don’t work the same way. The Father’s gifts in Romans 12 tend to describe how you’re wired to serve over a lifetime. Several of the Spirit’s gifts in 1 Corinthians 12 are described as manifestations “given for the benefit of all” (1 Corinthians 12:7), which may come as they are needed for ministry. A high score for healing or miracles doesn’t mean the same thing as a high score for teaching. Hold it with the same honesty: ask what you’ve actually seen.
Here are my own results, to show what reading them looks like in practice. My top five came back as giving, teaching, faith, healing and prophecy. Teaching and giving I recognized immediately; people who know me would name them before I did. Faith I could see in how I’ve made big decisions. Healing and prophecy I hold more carefully. They’re real, but they aren’t where I’d build a ministry. That’s not false modesty. It’s the difference between a gift with a long record of fruit and a gift God uses occasionally. Both are real. They are not the same kind of evidence.
Illustration
When twenty people from one church took this same test in early 2026, exhortation appeared in the top five for fourteen of them. Discernment and faith each appeared for eleven. Their natural strengths clustered the same way: Believer, Deliverer and Empathizer each turned up in ten or more of their HIGH5 results. If the names on those lists were the whole answer, most of that room would have been designed alike. They weren’t. By the end, their mission statements ranged from helping to build a Christ-centered refuge for the homeless, to serving behind the scenes so that families are strengthened, to helping women encounter God’s love and purpose.
Two lessons follow. First, a result shared by most of the room tells you something about the room, perhaps about what that church teaches and prizes, as much as about you. Session 2 warned that these tests are sensitive to where you serve and what you’ve been hearing. Second, the names on your list aren’t what distinguish you. The order does, and the combination, and above all the evidence: the particular times and places where the gift has actually borne fruit. That’s why Step 1 asks for a line of evidence under every gift.
Pause & Reflect
Before you take the test, write down the five gifts you expect to see. Why those five? You’ll compare them with your results.
Your natural abilities are also God’s gifts. They were given at your making rather than at your conversion, but they came from the same Giver and they serve the same purpose. The Design section asks about both, because Scripture treats both as His.
Jesus built one of His best-known parables on this point:
“For it is like a man going on a journey, who summoned his slaves and entrusted his property to them. To one he gave five talents, to another two, and to another one, each according to his ability (δύναμιν). Then he went on his journey.”
Word Study
δύναμις dynamis G1411
“ability” · Matthew 25:15
Range. Power, strength, might; miraculous power, or a miracle itself; and, more quietly, the inherent capacity a person or thing has by nature. It occurs about 120 times in the New Testament.
The sense here. Capacity. Thayer places Matthew 25:15 under “inherent power, power residing in a thing by virtue of its nature”: literally, “to each according to his own ability.” Kingdom Essentials Session 5 studied the same word in Acts 1:8, where it means the Spirit’s power coming upon the disciples. Same word, different sense, and the context tells you which.
Why it carries the argument. In the parable the master doesn’t hand out money at random. He looks first at what each servant is already capable of, and then entrusts accordingly. Capacity comes before assignment. That is why this course asks about your natural abilities at all: they’re part of what the Master looked at before He decided what to put in your hands. (And as with every word study, one caution: this verse doesn’t tell you the size of your capacity is the measure of your worth. The two-talent servant received exactly the same praise as the five-talent servant, Matthew 25:21, 23.)
Source. Thayer’s Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament; Strong’s Concordance via Bible Hub.
Daniel is the Old Testament’s clearest example of natural ability that God both gave and used. He and his three friends were chosen for the Babylonian court because they were already “well versed in all kinds of wisdom, well educated and having keen insight” (Daniel 1:4). Yet the narrator credits God for all of it: “God endowed them with knowledge and skill in all sorts of literature and wisdom” (Daniel 1:17). The ability was natural, trained and God-given, all at once. Scripture doesn’t find those descriptions in tension, and neither should you.
Illustration
Johann Sebastian Bach wrote three letters at the end of every church composition he produced: S.D.G., for Soli Deo Gloria, “to the glory of God alone.” What’s less often noticed is that he also wrote them on some of his secular music: dance suites, keyboard pieces, works written for a paycheck at a prince’s court.
Bach didn’t divide his ability into a sacred portion that belonged to God and a secular portion that belonged to him. The gift for counterpoint was the same gift in the cathedral and in the concert room, and it came from the same Giver. That’s the posture for Step 2. The assessment you’ll take is secular; it will describe you in the language of the workplace. Read the results as Bach signed his manuscripts: this, too, is from God, and for Him.
Pause & Reflect
What ability did you have before you became a Christian that you’ve never thought to offer to God?
The objection runs like this, and it’s a serious one. Look at Romans 12: giving, leadership, mercy, service, teaching. Those look exactly like natural personality traits. Plenty of unbelievers are generous, organized, compassionate and good at explaining things. If the “spiritual gift” of leadership looks identical to a natural talent for leadership, maybe the category is just a Christian label for ordinary human abilities. And if the gifts really are distinct, why would a Christian need to take a secular strengths test at all?
Scripture doesn’t draw the sharp line either side of this debate would like. Some gifts plainly go beyond natural capacity: nobody is naturally gifted at healing the sick or working miracles (1 Corinthians 12:9–10). Others overlap heavily with natural ability. Paul expected the gifted leader to lead “with diligence” and the giver to give “with sincerity” (Romans 12:8), and those instructions would fit a natural talent just as well.
Here is where I land, and why. My own conviction is that the relationship varies. Sometimes the Spirit takes a capacity God built into you at birth and fills it with a new power and direction, the way He filled Bezalel’s craftsmanship “with the Spirit of God” (Exodus 31:3). Sometimes He gives what nature never supplied, and a shy believer suddenly finds they can speak God’s word with clarity. And sometimes a natural ability simply remains natural, a good gift from a good Creator, used faithfully for His glory like Bach’s dance suites. That’s why this course asks about both. If they were identical, one test would do. If they were unrelated, the overlap between your two results wouldn’t be so telling. Watch for the overlap. It’s usually where your design is clearest.
Where this stays unresolved. Scripture never gives a rule for telling a Spirit-given gift apart from a Spirit-used natural ability, and it never seems to think the distinction matters much for the person using it. Both are grace. Both are for “the benefit of all.” If you can’t tell which one you have, you’re in good company, and you can still use it.
Consider This
Step 3 adds a third short assessment: the Enneagram, a model that describes nine basic personality types. Your spiritual gifts describe how the Spirit equips you to serve, and your strengths describe what you do well. Your personality describes how you’re wired: what drives you, what you fear, how you act under pressure. Any parent can describe the different personalities of their children, and those differences are part of how God made each one.
Use it with your eyes open. The Enneagram’s nine-pointed symbol comes from the early twentieth-century teacher G. I. Gurdjieff, and the personality types were developed later by Oscar Ichazo and Claudio Naranjo; Christian teachers adopted the model in the 1970s and after. Some Christians object to those origins, and personality researchers regard its scientific support as weak. The test site itself says it’s for informational purposes. So this course uses it the way Session 2 taught you to use any test: as one witness, describing how you tend to operate, never as a spiritual path or a verdict on who you are. If your type rings true and your witness agrees, it will help you read your gifts and strengths. If it doesn’t, set it aside.
Everything above has been explanation. God decided your gifts, as He saw fit. They come in as many colors as the needs of the church, and each one is a stewardship, not a trophy. A test result is one witness, to be weighed by fruit. Your natural abilities are His gifts too, given before you believed and meant to be offered back to Him.
Now you find out what you’ve been given. Not by guessing, and not by taking a quiz once and accepting whatever it says, but by testing, waiting, retesting, praying and asking someone who knows you. Steps 1, 2 and 3 will take several days. Let them.
Before you take any of the assessments, open your Purpose Journal and make two short predictions. Write down the five spiritual gifts you expect to score highest, and the five natural strengths you think describe you best. Don’t look anything up first. Just write.
Then ask your witness to do the same for you, without seeing your list: Which five gifts and which five strengths do you see in me? Put their lists next to yours. If you already know or suspect your Enneagram type, write that guess down too.
When your results come in, you’ll have three witnesses on the page: your own expectation, your witness’s observation and the assessment. Where all three agree, you’ve found something solid. Where they disagree, you’ve found something worth praying about. And where your witness names something neither you nor the test expected, you may have found your blind pane from Session 2.
Discovery Steps · Steps 1, 2 and 3
These are the first three of twenty-one steps. Each one tells you what to do, what to produce, what a surface answer looks like next to a deep one, and how you’ll know you’re done. Use the Listening Rhythm from Session 2 for each: ask to be searched; do the work; sit with it; test it with the witnesses; sleep on it.
Step 1 · My Spiritual Gifts
The prompt. What are your spiritual gifts?
What to do. Take the free test at giftstest.com/test. Read the description of each of your top five gifts at giftstest.com/allgifts. Then wait at least two days and take the test again. These assessments are sensitive to what you’ve been reading lately, where you’re serving now, even the last sermon you heard, and a retake shows you which results hold steady.
What to produce. Your top five gifts, in order, each named exactly as the results page names it. Under each, copy the test’s one-line description from the gift list, then add one sentence of evidence: a specific time, place or result where you’ve seen this gift at work. Mark any gift you doubt, and say why. (Copy the descriptions now, even though they feel like busywork. Step 6 will ask you to pull Steps 1–5 together, and you’ll want the words in front of you, not a memory of them.)
Surface answer: “Teaching, Giving, Faith, Leadership, Mercy.” (Pasted from the results page and done. Most of the Step 1 answers in an actual group that worked through these steps looked like this: five names, and nothing to show why.)
Deep answer: “1. Teaching. People regularly tell me my Tuesday study made Romans make sense, and I lose track of time preparing. 2. Giving. We’ve given beyond the tithe for fifteen years, and it has never felt like loss. … 5. Mercy. I’m not sure about this one. It scored high the first time and lower on the retake, and my witness says she rarely sees it. Holding it loosely.”
Worked examples.
You’re done when …
Time: at least two days, because of the retake.
Step 2 · My Natural Abilities
The prompt. What are you naturally strong at doing?
What to do. Take the free HIGH5 strengths test at high5test.com. You’ll need to create a free account. The test is 120 questions, untimed, and takes about fifteen to twenty minutes. The free report gives you your top five strengths with a short description of each; you don’t need the paid upgrades. Before you close the page, save the report itself: download it or copy its text into your journal. A link to your results page won’t open for anyone else, and it won’t help you at Step 6, when you’ll need the words.
What to produce. Your top five strengths, in order. For each, write four short lines: (1) the test’s own description, copied word for word; (2) the description in your own words; (3) one example from your life, at work, at home or at church; and (4) what happens when you overuse it, because every strength has a shadow. Write this step in the language of the workplace, the way a coworker who doesn’t share your faith would describe you. Your faith comes into the picture soon enough; here you’re describing how you were built.
Surface answer: “Motivating 31%, Doing 23%, Thinking 26%, Feeling 20%,” followed by a link to the results page. (That is a real answer from an actual group that worked through these steps, and it isn’t unusual. It records the four broad domains and none of the five strengths. Half the group didn’t copy the descriptions either, and their facilitator had to ask, again and again, for the same thing: paste the description of each result, because you’re going to need it a few steps from now.)
Deep answer: “2. Deliverer. Test: ‘Deliverers follow through on their commitments and appreciate seeing how this builds more trust and respect among others. They feel terrible if promises get broken - both on the receiving and giving side.’ In my words: if I said I’d do it, it gets done, and I notice when other people’s word doesn’t hold. Example: I’m the one on our team who sends the follow-up after every meeting, and people have started waiting for it. Overused: I say yes to too much, keep every promise at the cost of sleep, and quietly resent the people who don’t.”
Worked example.
You’re done when …
Time: at least one day.
Step 3 · My Personality
The prompt. What characterizes your personality?
What to do. Take the free Enneagram test at myenneagramtest.org. It takes only a few minutes, and you don’t need the paid reports. Read the description of your top type and of the type with your second-highest score, then ask your witness which of the two sounds more like you. If you’ve already taken the Myers-Briggs or DiSC assessments, add those results too. Like the gifts test, personality tests can give different results on different days, so hold the result loosely until your witness and your own history confirm it.
What to produce. Your type (and wing, if the test gives one). Then three short lines: (1) what drives you most; (2) what you tend to fear or avoid; and (3) how your type shows up at your best and at your worst. Add one sentence on how it helps explain something in your Step 1 or Step 2 results.
Surface answer: “Type 3.” (A number, with no evidence and no connection to anything else you’ve learned.)
Deep answer: “Type 2, the Helper. Drives me: being needed. Fear: being unwanted. At my best I notice who’s been left out and bring them in; at my worst I say yes to everything and resent it later. It explains why Mercy scored high on my gifts test, and why my witness laughed when I said I ‘don’t mind’ being asked to help.”
Worked examples. The nine Enneagram types, as the test names them:
You’re done when …
Time: at least one day.
Big Ideas
Kingdom Principle
You don’t choose your gifts. You discover them, and then you steward them.
Closing Prayer (Say this aloud!)
Father, You decided what to give me, and You gave it on purpose. Thank You for the gifts I can already see, and for the ones I haven’t recognized yet. Forgive me for the times I’ve envied someone else’s color and neglected my own. As I take these tests, keep me honest. Show me what’s real, confirm it through the people who know me, and make me a good steward of Your varied grace. Everything I have is from You, and for You. In Jesus’ name, amen.
Go Deeper
Accessible
Sam Storms, The Beginner’s Guide to Spiritual Gifts (2002; rev. ed. 2013). A clear, warm walk through each gift in the New Testament lists, from a theologian who believes all of them still operate, and the natural next read after Step 1.
Marcus Buckingham and Donald O. Clifton, Now, Discover Your Strengths (2001). The secular book that launched the strengths movement behind tests like HIGH5. Read it as general revelation: a careful description of how people are made.
Substantial
Gordon D. Fee, God’s Empowering Presence: The Holy Spirit in the Letters of Paul (1994). The standard exegetical treatment of every Pauline text on the Spirit and His gifts, for readers who want to test this session’s claims against the Greek.
Academic
Miroslav Volf, Work in the Spirit: Toward a Theology of Work (1991). Builds a whole theology of ordinary work on the Spirit’s gifts, arguing that “secular” abilities are charisms too. The scholarly case for this session’s What About.
Leading This Session
This is the first session with Discovery Steps, so the group’s main job is accountability, not discussion. Have everyone take Step 1’s first test before the next meeting and bring their results. The predictable stall is envy and false humility at the same time: someone with healing or prophecy at the top feels awkward, someone with helps or service feels small. Read the Dorcas illustration aloud if that happens. The single most useful exercise is the witness comparison from The Experience. In pairs, have each person name two gifts they see in the other before either shares their test results. Group questions: What surprised you in your results? and Where do your spiritual gifts and natural strengths overlap? Two practical notes from an actual group that worked through these steps. Expect several people to share the same gifts (exhortation, discernment and faith were each in more than half the lists); use that to make the Illustration’s point that the evidence, not the names, distinguishes them. And the most common problem at these steps was mechanical: about half recorded only names, a link or percentages. Ask everyone to bring the saved report and the copied descriptions to the next meeting.
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Next: Session 4, Your Design, asks the hardest question in the Design section: what do you do better than anyone you know? Then it asks you to name the values you won’t compromise, and to pull Steps 1–5 together into a single statement of your design.
Session 3 · Kingdom Purpose
Your Gifts
What has God already put in your hands?
Given, Not Chosen
God distributes gifts “as he decides.” His grace is many-colored, and each gift is a stewardship.
Reading Your Results
A test result is one witness. Weigh it by fruit, your witness and prayer. The names are shared; the evidence is yours.
Built Before You Believed
Natural abilities are God’s gifts too. Capacity comes before assignment.
So · Now
You don’t choose your gifts. You discover them, and then you steward them.
Predict, then test: Step 1 (spiritual gifts, taken twice), Step 2 (HIGH5) and Step 3 (Enneagram), each with evidence from your life.
Discovery Steps · Steps 1, 2 and 3
Kingdom Principle
You don’t choose your gifts. You discover them, and then you steward them.